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tashabear
tashabear
Wolfie's funeral mass (for his mom, not really for me or him) is scheduled for 11am on Tuesday, December 29, at St. Francis of Assisi in South Fitchburg, MA. I'd appreciate a head's up if you plan to attend; his mom needs help planning for food.

If you can't make it, don't fret; there will be memorials at other times and places later this year.

Thanks, kids -- we can all get through this together.

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squeakyjackie From: squeakyjackie Date: December 23rd, 2009 05:06 am (UTC) (base camp)
Not gonna be able to make it to the services from here on the left coast. Will take a moment of thought & remembrance that day, though.

We will all get through this, together. That's what friends are for (It's in the Friendship Handbook).

{{hugs}}
palegreyminion From: palegreyminion Date: December 23rd, 2009 10:17 am (UTC) (base camp)
We will attend, possibly with Jon but he's asleep so I can't ask him just now.

albreda From: albreda Date: December 23rd, 2009 11:20 am (UTC) (base camp)
I want to try and make it to one of the ones that is for you and Wolfie, but my thoughts will be with you on the 29th, as much for dealing with his mother and her faith as for Wolfie's passing. Sorry I can't make it to be moral support in person. :/
spunkywulf From: spunkywulf Date: December 23rd, 2009 11:39 am (UTC) (base camp)
I don't think I will be able to be there for that time unfortunately, however, I hope that I will be able to join you for another memorial sometime. Preferably one that would mean the most for you and him. Much love to you.
tashabear From: tashabear Date: December 23rd, 2009 11:43 am (UTC) (base camp)
I'm hoping there might be something at AC.
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tashabear From: tashabear Date: December 23rd, 2009 02:02 pm (UTC) (base camp)
That would be lovely, sweetie. Ping me after the holidays about it?
sibilla_dangers From: sibilla_dangers Date: December 23rd, 2009 12:04 pm (UTC) (base camp)
I'll be there.
hascouf From: hascouf Date: December 23rd, 2009 12:20 pm (UTC) (base camp)
At least one of us will be there, depending on baby sitter availability.

hascouf From: hascouf Date: December 24th, 2009 05:27 pm (UTC) (base camp)
baby sitting arranged, we will both be there
hugh_mannity From: hugh_mannity Date: December 23rd, 2009 12:40 pm (UTC) (base camp)
I'll be there. I don't think lightning will strike me if I set food in a church.
harpduchess From: harpduchess Date: December 23rd, 2009 01:56 pm (UTC) (base camp)
We'll be there.
starseeker1221 From: starseeker1221 Date: December 23rd, 2009 03:41 pm (UTC) (base camp)
Myself, shadowpony, and my mom will be there.
tashabear From: tashabear Date: December 23rd, 2009 06:55 pm (UTC) (base camp)
yay! Now your mommy can meet my mommy and maybe we can haz playdates! (His family is going to be so mad when we laugh at memories of him... I can't say as I care, though.)
measanan From: measanan Date: December 23rd, 2009 06:14 pm (UTC) (base camp)

Oh...

I'm so sorry, I really didn't know.

It's unlikely either Feral or I will be there, but I will ask him when he gets home from work.
tashabear From: tashabear Date: December 23rd, 2009 06:51 pm (UTC) (base camp)

Re: Oh...

About Wolfie? That's okay. I don't expect people to hang on my every word, especially on LJ. :-) If you can make it, that'd be spiffy; if you can't, keep Good Thoughts for me on the day, so I don't lash out at my in-laws for being stupid. :-D
measanan From: measanan Date: December 24th, 2009 06:22 pm (UTC) (base camp)

Re: Oh...

*hug*

I was so caught up in my own troubles, I hadn't followed LJ at all since Pennsic. Yours make mine trivial.

We both send our best wishes and positive energy, and will be thinking of you.
points From: points Date: December 24th, 2009 09:30 pm (UTC) (base camp)
Joanne and I will attend. I talked to Jeremy, and he'd like to come as well. I'll give him a ride in.
helwen From: helwen Date: December 27th, 2009 04:16 pm (UTC) (base camp)
We'll try to be at one of the gatherings later this year *hugs*

Thanks for the link to Kitty Angels, btw. We gave them a gift.
was1 From: was1 Date: December 27th, 2009 10:51 pm (UTC) (base camp)
I talked with my manager today and I'll be able to get time off for the funeral, so I'll be there on Tuesday. Sorry for a bit of late notice.
tashabear From: tashabear Date: December 27th, 2009 10:54 pm (UTC) (base camp)
No problem; I'll be happy to see you.
galestorm From: galestorm Date: December 28th, 2009 02:58 pm (UTC) (base camp)
Oh no, I'm just catching up, so I didn't know about this until now, and I am so so so so so SO sorry to find out about this.

I wish I could be there, just to help you.
tashabear From: tashabear Date: December 28th, 2009 03:10 pm (UTC) (base camp)
Oh, honey, you have enough on your plate. Just spare me a thought tomorrow -- I'll need it!
galestorm From: galestorm Date: December 28th, 2009 04:20 pm (UTC) (base camp)
Will do, many many thought are with you. *hug*
evilnicola From: evilnicola Date: December 28th, 2009 03:14 pm (UTC) (base camp)
I'm trying to negotiate a ride, so put me down as a maybe?
tashabear From: tashabear Date: December 28th, 2009 03:14 pm (UTC) (base camp)
Okey dokey, hon. *hug*
bikerwalla From: bikerwalla Date: December 28th, 2009 05:01 pm (UTC) (base camp)
I'll be thinking of him. I am trying to make a fitting memorial out of half a page, but I still don't know what to write about, except his web comic projects.
tashabear From: tashabear Date: December 28th, 2009 05:03 pm (UTC) (base camp)
Shit, I forgot about that -- I'll try to get something together for you tonight.
bikerwalla From: bikerwalla Date: December 28th, 2009 05:06 pm (UTC) (base camp)
Oh -- that came out wrong. I'm not mad at you, I'm just fretting at my own writer's block. He was a Good Man and the world is lesser for his passing.
tashabear From: tashabear Date: December 28th, 2009 05:19 pm (UTC) (base camp)
Oh, I didn't take it that way. I've just been rar-ing and flailing and running in place and I forgot. *hug*
29 trips or shoot the rapids